More Than Money: Aligning Values and Finances in Relationships

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Money can be one of the most uncomfortable—and important—conversations in relationships. In fact, only 38% of U.S. adults feel comfortable discussing their bank account balance with loved ones, according to a recent Bankrate Financial Taboos Survey. And research shows nearly half of couples experience money-related conflicts at least some of the time.

In this episode, we’re breaking down how money dynamics shape relationships and why honest conversations are essential, no matter who earns more.

We’ll explore:

• When and how to start money conversations depending on the stage of your relationship

• Tips for making money talks productive—from setting aside time to laying everything on the table

• Lifestyle alignment when one partner earns more (splitting bills, vacations, dining out, and daily spending)

• Debt, savings, and future planning—how to handle financial imbalances without resentment

• Stay-at-home decisions and the often-overlooked financial value of caregiving and household management

• What matters more than income: shared values, transparency, and supporting each other’s goals

We also reflect on why income alone doesn’t define financial harmony. Instead, it’s about building habits together, being honest about goals, and maintaining ongoing conversations as life changes.

💡 Final takeaway: It’s not about who earns more—it’s about whether you’re willing to talk about it and work through it together.